Friday, June 29, 2007

Matrimonio di nuovo

This Thursday, I got invited to yet another wedding - this time by P, my classmate, who got hitched to his longtime Italian partner I, who flew in with her mom from Padova. Era molto unico - brief (thank god) and beautiful - at the decade-old Freemason Hall (one rarely gets a peep inside, you have to be 1. male 2. sworn in as a fraternity bro). After that, we all sat down at the tavern-style hall below for an early lunch at 10am where the wine flowed readily as the speeches and tears.

P made a touching speech peppered with some well-rehearsed jokes while the Freemason brothers' laughter soon became louder and louder with more vino and whisky consumed (by now it was only 11.15am). I managed to get some great shots of the couple (she in a gorgeous sari and he in a penguin tux) before the Indian ma-ma cameraman nearly knocked me unconscious with his heavy-set camera. The poor guy was so apologetic but I jokingly said I'd send him the medical bill. They'd be having 2 more celebrations - one in italia this settembre and another Hindu ceremony next January which we are all looking forward to.

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Uniquely yours

I was reading Anthony Bourdain's extremely entertaining 'The Nasty Bits' and came across this bit. "I'm a New Yorker, so it should come as no surprise that I think my city is the greatest city in the world." Which reminded me of the many people from different countries whom I've met and how these proud beasts declared too with a smirk on their faces that their hometown is the best. Hmmm, how many of us could truely say that of Singapore? I bet if you ask your neighbour/colleague, he/she'd say "Singapore ah? Ok lah. So hot, so expensive now, boring lah."

Actually if you bother to venture out of the air-conditioned comfort of your flat into the freakin' hot crowded citta, there are options lurking in some swelterin' corners like the National Art Museo, where N and I spent half a Saturday inspecting the 'Engraving The World' exhibition - a chalcography collection of the Louvre Museum - and the surreal modern works by Chinese contemporary artist Zeng Fanzhi.

The former SJI school building was gorgeous and I especially liked the hall upstairs with its ghostly old European chandeliers and ornate tiles. After that, we crossed the road to the newly renovated grand dame, Singapore National Museum for more heritage exhibitions. www.nationalmuseum.sg Three weeks ago, we were here for a really pretentious launch of a really pretentious bar and I cringed when I had to air-kiss some of the pretentious folks. We bolted out of there in 15mins.

This time, it was a more laidback outing where we sipped on our caffe latte at the Aussie-like trendy cafe Novus and gossiped about everyone but us. There were so quirky modern works including the wall that projected our captured images and the swinging chandeliers (justified by a really lengthy pretentious explanation). We liked the Food Museum though it could have easily been more fun, instead of being so safe and so textbook. What about the tock-tock candy man? What about the kachang puteh man? What about the ice kacang balls??

By the time we'd finished, the sun was setting and dramatic against the beehive of clouds. We walked over to the Esplanade aka 'The Durian' for beers, salty fries and wings at a bar and watched the NDP fireworks. My friend B and his bro G had invited me to watch the Bonfire festival where 'poi' professionals came to put up their fiery acts and free workshops. These guys were damn good! Later that week, F and I were inspired to pick up the ropes again and bribed the brothers with some beer to teach us new poi tricks.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Signorina Vana

Today I went to a women's magazine photoshoot and got all made up for the story feature where they posed the question "How much money is enough?" to an eclectic bunch of women from successful directors to independent professionals. One of them is a free-spirited writer friend who has called India home for the last few years I've known her. The make-up part was fun, as I got the whole dramatic fake eyelashes, coats of mascara and gold eye shadow - fit for a drag queen.

The make-up artist said it was necessary to apply heavier cosmetics so I'd look good in the photos - no shit under the glare of the studio lights. And the hairstylist was trying to study my white hair as he contemplated what style would work for me. The stressful part was having to smile and pose in different 'natural' ways under the disapproving glares of the art director/stylist, designer, editor and photographer. After 20mins and a dozen poses later, I managed to loosen up and gave them my best shot! Who says modelling is easy??

Anyway back to the question - I think money is important but I draw the line at having to work overtime and losing sleep over it. I see my friends making tons of money but leading equally stressful lives with no time off for the more important things. One should make enough to sustain your own level of living without it cramping your personal space and freedom. We should work to live and not live to work.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Babies alarm

On Sunday, we celebrated the first month of Kieran, my cousin's newborn who was a bundle of joy. His brother Javier was a little minx and giggled as mia nonna placed his baby brother in his lap which tickled him no less. My cousin J and her husband are only 24 and they have already 2 boys - at times I envied them a lot but then again there were trade-offs that I wasn't sure if I was ready to embrace.

I'd always love kids and had a deep materal instinct - perhaps it was the Cancerian nurturing nature. My earliest goal was to have 2 kids before 30. However when 30 came and went, I thought ok maybe I'd just aim for 1 kid by 35. At this rate with my 32nd birthday coming up in July, I feared that my shot at motherhood is quite slim because it means I'd need to get married in the next 2 years and get pregnant subito. Hmm just thinking of it turned my hair white. I have all these plans coming up and I'm having the best time. Will I ever be ready?

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Vola via ora

Phew, finalmente we managed to secure 2 last tickets on Thai Airways to Roma at the insistence of F that we trot down to the ticketing office today. I was literally begging the lady 'per favore, I need to be there in Settembre!' She said it was our lucky day as 2 tickets were released and we quickly grabbed them, despite that we'd leave later than scheduled on 2 settembre. But better than nothing riiight? Also I'm looking forward to the trip to Hong Kong in July with mia madre and nonna to visit mia sorella (air ticket is courtesy of my mommy, yay!).

This week I also went to the embassy and processed my papers. I still have to confirm the period of the scholarship as I wasn't sure which level / course to pick. Il corso di advanced livelllo 1 mi e' sembrata cosi difficile, madonna! The objective of this advanced course is to "train students to use the language almost effortlessly, in its oral as well as written forms, in a natural and spontaneous manner..." (Si, si, I can be natural and spontaneous esp when I am a bit tipsy!)

"They must be able to make themselves easily understood even if the expressions they use are not always correct and accurate... (Si, e' me!) They must have good mastery of a broad lexical repertory in different areas sufficient to allow them to understand specialised articles in newspapers and magazines. In terms of communication they must be able to choose the most suitable language functions from their repertoire in order to speak and keep up a conversation, to express their points of view using a language that is not only appropriate but also efficient for communicative purposes. They must be able to write clear and well structured texts, even on complicated topics." (Woah a bit scary lor!)

For more info on the University for Foreigners at Perugia, visit www.unistrapg.it/english/

Monday, June 11, 2007

Don't Auntie Me

Just yesterday when I was admiring my friend's antiques at his new place, some little girl came up to me from behind and said 'See auntie, look at what I've made'. I looked around and saw nobody, realising she was speaking to me - that little minx whom I felt like saying who you calling auntie huh - but I just faked a smile and cooed 'Ooh what a lovely mushroom you made.'

Che depresso. I complained to my best mate F and she said 'Yeah what, face it. We're aunties already.' It didn't help that my 32nd birthday is looming on the horizon. That's why I loved it when the lecherous hawker uncle always greeted me 'Xiao mei (little sister)' or 'Mei nu (bella)'. Better enjoy the compliments now when I can - si, even from a 60 year-old greasy carrot cake seller.

Anyway I've been rather occupata the past week ever since I gotten an official letter from the Italian embassy, asking me to present myself and selected translated documents including a medical report - that'd pronounce me safe to be let into Italia for the scholarship (yay, no HIV, VD, TB!).

Work aside, I've also been planning a cat photo exhibition - a personal project close to my heart - that will showcase fun snapshots of kitties by me and my friends during our travels. Do visit this link for more - www.gattidelmondo.blogspot.com