Thursday, June 11, 2009
Bali's hot maams
Monday, June 01, 2009
Permesso please
L got his work permit today and immediately passed all the numbers he can find on it to my mamma (for 4D what else?) whom he has affectionately nicknamed 'Matta' (italian for 'mad') for her boundless energia and chatter. I guess I've inherited some of that unstoppable madness.Yesterday L said he saw the Singapore President whom came to the barbar shop next door to the italian ristorante. It was no mistake as there was polizia outside. Being the 'relationship manager' written on his namecard, he wanted to personally deliver an espresso and tiramisu to thank him for his work permit but was worried he'd be shot down. Imagine the headlines: "Espresso Attempt Thwarted - A Close Shave For President at Barber". Hahahaha.
L's current obsession is Phua Chu Kang after I've pointed Singapore's favourite ah beng on the MRT's courtesy campaign poster. We watched re-runs of PCK on You Tube and I must admit it - it was rather funny. L's Singlish has improved tremendously - now his fav phrase is 'Pui Chao Nwua' (meaning 'spit smelly saliva'). I try to explain the context of it being used but it's not an easy one. My granny said it's like to curse your bad luck when something bad happened. She'd know since she's the eloquent queen of hokkien swear words and sayings.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Sew & sweat project
It has been a sticky weekend a casa, with the temperature soaring. Two showers ain't enough. L went to work on both days, already drenched in his sweat before stepping out. I might give him a sweat gland removal operation as his birthday present in October. Last night I brought mamma, nonna and zia to surprise L at his workplace. It was nonna's first pizza at age 78 and she had second helpings, followed by tiramisu and a sip of cappuccino (too much foam, she agreed). She's always so adventurous, all the more now keen to try everything after her stroke.
Anyway I just lazed at home, read papers, watched crap tv, cleaned room and finally got down to my sewing project today. I had bought this 2metre of fuschia pink cotton stretch fabric few months ago and couldn't figure what to do with it. Somehow I was inspired and tried my hand at making a simple tee-shirt dress. Mom, the ex tailor, laughed at me as I cropped the fabric against my t-shirt. She was laughing even louder but this time impressed, when I presented my final work, complete with a black belt for maximum effect! I could wear it to sleep and party. Spurred on, I sew a tank top and strongy octopus-centipede toy for the cats. So clever hor. *Pat pat*
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Permesso finalmente
The good news that we have been waiting for finally arrived ~ L got his work permit! A big load of pressure rolled off our chests. He can start work and no longer fret about overstaying. He has been distracting himself the last week by experimenting with tofu - his latest culinary obsession. Inspired by tofu on hot plate, he has fried it up with chilies, prawns, chicken in soy sauce and noodles. Just last Thursday, he brought me lunch and we sat by the riverfront and tucked into the box of fried hor fun with fishcake, chicken and tofu. It wasn't the best I've had but it was a good attempt and full of amore. Bravissimooo.
A shame I haven't had much time to write and upload the pictures for my Hainan voyage and the Vespa 'ride n cook' outing. Last few weeks were madness - busy juggling a couple of new clients and the upcoming Cats photo exhibtion! Sponsors are hard to come by and I'm starting to worry about the framing and printing issues. But at least, we seem to get more contributors who are keen to be part of this community project. Also Elle magazine is featuring me in their July issue, as part of a feature on women professionals who still find time to fight for their causes. In comparison to other animal/ environment activists, my small humble project is just peanuts but I hope it will touch hearts and inspire people to be kinder to animals, especially cats.
Talking about inspiration, I was contacted by a fellow member of the Italian cultural institute who has won a scholarship to study at Perugia. R also heard about my WOOFing farmstays from our teacher AM and was inspired to go on her own! I sent her a few tips and my blog and she said "Maybe you should have your own talkshow one day. It is just incredible that your experiences resonate a lot with me so I’m sure others will find stuff that would help them reflect on their own lives too. All I want to say is grazie grazie grazie. I wish you a beautiful week and a beautiful life with L." Aww, isn't it nice? My classmate E also finally plucked her guts and will be going on a solo journey to Italia In june! I'm always telling her she works too much and stresses too often. Life is short and she is so young and talented! Imagine she can speak fluent italian and hasn't even stepped into our Motherland! :) How can one love and perfect the lingua without living it? E, kiss the ground and suck it all in! La primavera arriva e la vita e' veramente bella. Complimenti, cara!
Thursday, April 30, 2009
A Casa in Cina
L told me a funny incident yesterday - he was getting out of the lift when the doors opened and a monkey was standing outside on the ground floor. He was in shock and nearly shat himself. Last weekend, mom said everyone was amused by the AVA guys who were trying hard to catch some monkeys on the loose at the wet market. I don't know where they come from but they seem to be settling well in the neighbourhood.
Funnily I didn't see any monkeys at Hainan even though they had a widely publicised Monkey island (i kid you not!) All I remember were thousands of balmy coconut trees and rice paddy fields. The heritage trail was an amusing tale and I'd need more time to write about it (sorry was busy with a preview for a French auction house last week!). Firstly L was supposed to go with us but was rejected at the Budget terminal because he didn't know about the 'letter' from the China Embassy to say he can get a visa upon arrival. We were devastated. I wouldn't have gone if I hadn't booked the hotel at Sanya. Anyway we only had ourselves to blame becos we should have done our research and covered all grounds. Mom and 2nd aunt (dad's side) were equally disappointed as they were hoping to show off L to the folks. Imagine bringing an angmoh to this remote rural village. He'd be a circus freakshow or hometown celebrity. Either way, it'd be hilarious. Anyway I'm cheating on my blog entry for this trip, and have cut and pasted the story I did for a food and travel magazine below - enjoy!
Hello To HainanNothing quite prepared me for Hainan, even though I’ve heard several accounts of our ancestral village from my family. The travel literature on this ‘Hawaii of the Orient’ is also rather cursory and limited on the internet, so I could only envision this lush tropical island south of China (approximately four times as big as Singapore) by piecing imagery from the many Miss Universe beauty pageants that were paraded against the sunny backdrop of Sanya’s beach resorts.
Understandably this glamour factor, together with its all-year warm weather and many fine beaches of Sanya, are the main reasons why most tourists flock to Hainan. Since this was my first time in my ‘homeland’, I roped in my mother and aunt – both veteran visitors to Hainan. We would travel from Haikou in the north and eat our way to Qiong Hai and the nearby ancestral village Hui Li. Sanya would be the icing on the cake.
To begin with, Haikou is a bustling modern cityscape that is no different from Hong Kong with its maddening traffic and grim concrete terrain. I couldn’t mutter a word of Hainanese but thankfully my Mandarin (or ‘guo yu’) came in useful as we bantered with relatives over a feast of pork ribs and papaya soup, stir-fried beef and tofu, braised pork belly, baby sea cucumber with kalian vegetables, eggplant on sizzling hotplate and the ubiquitous Wen Chang chicken. Food is indeed a great ice breaker.
Apparently the inspiration for Singaporean’s Hainanese chicken, this local breed of Wen Chang chicken is a definite winner with its tender, flavourful and lean meat – simply boiled and served with a chilli dip (other frills like the ginger dip, dark soy sauce and rice cooked with chicken stock are Singapore inventions). At other meals, I got to try the other famous local specialties – Jia Ji duck and Dong Shan lamb – but alas, the He Le crabs were not in season.
At the morning markets of Qiong Hai (similar to those found in Vietnam and Laos), farmers showcased a wide variety of fresh produce, live stocks and rice – essential ingredients that contribute to the uncomplicated Hainanese cooking. Even favourite breakfast choices of Bao lor fun (thick succulent noodles in a meat gravy) and piping hot claypot porridge are unfussy and comforting.
Outside the cities, Hainan is simply green and verdant. Closer to the ancestral village of Hui Li, our taxi ride got bumpier as we passed by rice paddy fields, pineapple groves, guava trees heavy with fruit and troops of ducks wet from the rain. Once we got there, a curious crowd of relatives and villagers came to welcome us. Some of them had chosen to remain in the village and make their living as farmers. Their houses were austere by our standards but they should be proud of their abundant vegetable plots, fruit trees, and animal stocks of plump geese, chickens and ducks.
After paying our respects at the ancestors’ altars, I was quite amazed to learn that all the family records were still being updated and we could trace our roots to our predecessor Lu Duo Xun more than 1,000 years ago. He was a politician, historian, writer, diplomat and philanthropist who fled the warring states in mainland China in that era and had come to settle in the village.
We considered it a huge privilege to be able to trace our heritage and are also grateful for the opportunities that we have now, had it not been for my grandfather who left Hainan at the tender age of 14 to seek a better life. As we sat down to a sumptuous home-cooked lunch washed down with plenty of fresh coconut juice, our two different worlds were united by a common lineage.
I wasn’t prepared for what I had experienced so far on the trip but more surprises awaited at Sanya. For starters, one would think we were in Russia, given the prolific Russian street signs and adverts found there. Apparently Sanya has long been a tropical haven for Russians to get away from the cold, and is also an alluring beach destination for waves of well-heeled mainland Chinese tourists decked in shocking Hawaiian prints.
With the boom in tourism and property market, many international hotel chains, from the likes of The Hilton to The Banyan Tree, are claiming their stakes at Sanya and changing the landscape at an alarming rate. But for now, the public infrastructure and urban planning still have a long way to go, compared to the more matured beach destinations in Asia. Sanya has a lot of potential, especially in the region of eco tourism with its rich natural resources of volcanoes, hot springs and ancient forest reserves.
It’s a shame we didn’t have time to explore these natural treasures but we did enjoy our last days in Hainan lapping up the fine powdery beaches, dining on the wonderful live seafood and relaxing to traditional Chinese massages. We also lugged back exquisite dried seafood, Chinese herbs, preserved fruits, coconut candy and coconut-laced coffee so we could share a taste of Hainan with our loved ones at home.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Buona Pasqua
Saturday, April 04, 2009
La Cucina Italiana
L has lost more than 10kg since he arrived; he could have lost more if not for the lovely local temptations that I've introduced him to - from curries and chilli crabs to durian cakes and char kway tiao. Fortunatamente his first love is popiah (but having said that, he could eat 10 of these in a sitting). The 2 things he missed most - which are also his pitfalls - are good crusty salty bread and all the milky fatty cheese like mozzarella and latte di fiori. He confessed luckily my dad brings back lots of fish and seafood so we can always whip up some seafood spaghetti.
I also surprise him with a loaf occasionally from Cedele and just last weekend, brought him to Quattro Stagioni italian gourmet store at Liang Court, and splurged on a ball of fresh mozzarella, mortadella ham, organic arugula and pomodori so he could make his preferito panino. Last month we also cooked up a storm at Giovanni and tag-teamed to create an italian feast of panzarotti (ham croquettes), parmiggiana (baked fried eggplant), a big tray of baked tagliatelle with meat and funghi, and tiramisu was courtesy of F, whom I must say has blossomed into a capable cook. Cooking is easy; it's just how good or bad you want it to be. Now I leave you with the recipe of the week:
Carla's pasta con arugula, capperini & pomodori
Ingredients:
Pasta (of your preference, I like angel hair)
3 cloves of garlic (finely chopped)
10 capers (finely chopped)
10 cherry tomatoes (halved)
Organic arugula (rocket leaves)
Salt & pepper to taste
Method:
1. Boil pasta for 6mins or until al dente.
2. While pasta is boiling, fry garlic and capers till fragrant.
3. Add tomatoes and cook for 2mins. Season to taste with salt and pepper.
4. Toss in cooked pasta and stir well. Add arugula last and dig in! (The hot pasta will just slightly wilt the arugula... mmm, can add chilli flakes too.)
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
La Connezione Italiana
Monday, March 30, 2009
Popiah obsession
We also visited J & A's newborn girl at KK and I almost cried in joy at the sight of the panzarottina (L nicknamed her 'the little croquette'). Just over 2kg, she's a little pink bundle and her perfectly round head full of hair is the size of a big Fuji apple. Big pat on the back to J who's so brave all these 7 years and had to endure rounds of expensive and painful treatments, but they never gave up and remained hopeful and cheery! A real inspiration to all.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Creativity and Creation
I've just finished two inspirational books which I'd recommend to anyone. The 1st is "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz who was born into a family of healers in Mexico and through his simple 'four agreements', he shows the way to self awareness and ultimately personal freedom. Freedom from self inflicted pain, guilt, victimisation, blame, etc which arised from ourselves and others, even your loved ones unwittingly. We can start anew and change our personal rules and make these new agreements for a better life.These four agreements are:
- Be impeccable with your words
Think before speaking as our words carry a lot of power, it can create joy as well as poison. Have you ever wondered why we humans are the only animals on earth that can speak? So before you say something to hurt someone in a fit of anger, come back to this agreement and be aware of your words.
- Don't take anything personally
Whatever happens to you or is said to you by someone is no fault of yours. It is not you, but them. If you can set this agreement, I think you'll be untouchable.
- Don't make assumptions
Seek the truth, as assumptions often lead to miscommunications and misunderstandings, then we end up taking it personally and say hurtful stuff. Very common, couples say things like 'You should have known or you should know me by now'.
- Always do your best
Last but not least, if you do your best - no more, no less - you'll live a meaningful productive life, guided by your own awareness of what you can achieve. If you know you can do better, do it and you won't judge yourself, feel guilty when people accuse you, or punish yourself even if you didn't meet the target.
And I've come up with my 5th agreement based on my own experience - "Forgive yourself and others". Learn from your mistakes and have the balls to say sorry and mean it. Forgiveness not just apply to yourself but also others who have caused you grief and harm. With forgiveness in your heart, you have nothing to fear. The 2nd book is "How To Be Free" by best selling author Tom Hodgkinson who escaped from the city and its industrialised evils to set up a simple and happier life with his family in the countryside. This is a follow up to his first book "How To Be Idle" - which is not only hilarious but makes great sense. "How To Be Free" is equally witty and addresses topics like 'Break the bonds of boredom', 'The tyranny of bills and freedom of simplicity', 'Stop competing' and 'Stop working, start living'.
Some passages from his book read: "Today we are imprisoned by our desires, shackled by shopping. The will to shop is a corroding and enfeebling force...This is not to say that one can't enjoy luxuries, it's just that we shouldn't take them seriously as a kind of goal in life. Don't make luxury into a meaning.' Hear ye, hear ye. It's scary how a friend recently racked up $30,000++ of debts on her 10 credit cards, and she confessed she has no savings at all. God knows what she spent on?! All I can say is - if you can't afford it, don't buy it! Life shouldn't be on credit.After some deliberation, I made a conscious decision to cancel my cable TV. In any case I don't watch cable often (reading is so enriching and free!) and most of the contents these days are crap, so it's a waste of money ($38 to be exact). I also went back to 'creativity and creation' and sew myself a pinstriped 'casino' totebag with 4 Aces embellishments (inspired by L's obession with the IRs)!
